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30-35,
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writes:Ive been friends with this boy at uni for a long time now and ive never really thought of him as anything more than a really good friend. I spend a lot of time with him and we get along like a house on fire but ive always seen him more as an older brother. Last week we both got very drunk and ended up getting together. I stayed round his and in the morning we were both like 'well that was a bit weird' and havent really mentioned it since, just stayed as friends. I feel like i may like him now but then everytime i think i like him it just seems so weird. I dont know how i feel about him anymore and its making me so confused :( x
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reader, Katrin2324  +, writes (4 November 2012):
Hi! I think you feel you like him just because you're a woman. For most of us sex means much more then just sex, we're used to do it with people who we truly love, feel physical wish when we are around them. For us it's very private, something we wouldn't do with people we don't like ( of course not for all women it's like that). If you never wanted to have sex with him before you did that, that means you didn't really like him as potential lover. So I think you should just calm down and think that it was just a mistake if it feels weird. If you did like it so he did, then we should find out about your feelings. But for man and woman who are drunk it's normal to want sex with each other,when we are drunk , we are poisoned by alcohol, and it gives us a signal to continue a life by making kids. Hope my advice was useful and you' ll solve your problem ! Good luck!
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