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I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob but it will be my first time!

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Question - (29 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2009)
A age 36-40, * writes:

i want to give a blow job to my boyfriend but i am feeling scared, bcos i have not done this before. one of my friend told me that he will like it, he lets me touch his penis when ever i start playing with his penis pure water like fluid oozez out i would like to taste but how to say to him? and he also feels asleep as soon as ejaculated why is that so

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009):

You don't have to tell him you wanna taste it just tell him you wanna give him a bj and don't use a condom and if you don't like it just spit off to the side.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

Since he is young he should pop quick. Cum is not clear like water, it is cloudy sometimes white if it is older than a day. Newer cum is clearer, so you can tell how long its been made and waiting to get out. Maybe you thought it was clear, but it was freshly made. Go ahead and taste it. It cant hurt u.

To give good blow job, you need to mix a hand job with the blow job or you get lock jaw trying to do it all orally. Keep his penis very wet with saliva and make sure to focus on the rim around the head. Don;t use your teeth... not good. Massage his balls while you do this. Don;t forget his balls! When he cums wrap your lips around the shaft and milk it up and down, but dont over do the rim around the head cuz it gets really sensitive as he is cumming. If you aren;t fond of the taste, you can deep throat him while he cums and bam it goes right past your tongue and down to your tummy. I can't do that but my best friend says she can.

Orgasms are physically draining so you are tired right after.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 September 2009):

Ask him what he'd like you to do to him. There's not better way to enjoy sex than to know what your partner wants. Also, if he's falling alseep, get him to pleasure you first, then pleasure him. Also, sitting up will prevent him from falling asleep, so when he has an orgasm, give him a few moments, the sit him up and hug him.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (29 September 2009):

Illithid agony auntBoth genders tend to fall asleep or at least get more relaxed and sleepy after an orgasm. If he is severe in this, make sure he gives you oral first, then give him one. When you both feel like a snooze, there's no time better for a cuddle and a nap.

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