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writes:Okay, so there is this guy that I like, let's call him Ray, everyone kept telling me that he liked me, based on the way he was acting, but I wasn't totally sure. he asked me to hook up with him and I said yes. On the day when we were supposed to get together, we were both very busy as we were in plays and our rehearsals clashed so we couldn't do anything. Later that night he invited me and a couple of other people to a party but I couldn't go. He then made out with this girl, let's call her Grace, who really liked him for ages and apparently he liked her.But there was another girl, let's call her Amy, who really liked Ray. Ray had liked Amy a few years ago but she turned him down and now they were really close friends. Grace and Amy are best friends and Amy was all like, 'I've liked Ray longer than you have so you can't go out with him', and Ray and Grace could never get an opportunity to talk and she didn't want him calling her house incase her parents found out. I think it's almost completely blown over and me and Ray are really close but I don't know exactly how everyone feels because even though I really want to get with Ray, Grace is such a nice person and I wouldn't do anything to upset her.any advice??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): No offence, but the guy doesn't seem entirely into you if he's making out with other women after he asked you out. Sounds more like he likes Grace so if I were you, I wouldn't even pursue it. Say you start dating him anyway, it's not like he's gonna stop seeing her. He's attracted to her and she likes him so you'll just be more of a back up or caught in the middle of something, always being paranoid he's with her, etc.
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reader, loseCONTROLx  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 You should talk to 'Grace' about how you feel about 'Ray'. And then you should talk to 'Ray' and also explain to him your feelings for him. But make sure you make the right decision, because guys can really hurt you. Good luck.
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