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anonymous
writes:okay--so i've been having sex for a while, and i still dont think i've "came" yet. i mean it gets really wet, but thats just an atomatic reaction. i constantly feel like i need to pee durring sex, and i almost feel like if i let my "vag" muscles go loose, i will pee. so i'm constantly keeping them tight, and not enjoying sex. it doesnt hurt, and it does feel a little bit good, at times. but i want to feel an orgasm!...am i doing something wrong?!? can i fix this problem?!?! HELP! (thanks)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): I used to feel like i needed to pee when i first started having sex that went away though when i just relaxed and also i think it can have something to do with how hard he's going if your not used to it. yea but Drmks909 is right!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Let it go. It's actually impossible for you to pee at that point. You may ejaculate a bit of fluid, but that's normal - if you get used to it, you may discover that you're a "squirter". Don't be embarrassed if it happens - it's pretty hot! Instead of keeping your inner muscles tensed during intercourse, try tensing them in rhythm with his thrusting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): I think that when you feel the urge to pee, you might be about to orgasm (this is usually the orgasm related to the g-spot and is not pee) but when you are worrying about peeing and preventing anything from occurring, you may be preventing yourself from orgasming. Try this one time: instead of holding tight, let it go.
Good Luck!
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reader, Drmks909 +, writes (30 May 2008):
Have you been able to orgasm by masturbating, because you will know when you have one! I have often heard women tell me that when they were just starting to become sexually active they couldn't orgasm with their partner until they had learned how to by themselves.... Just a thought.
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