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writes: [MOD NOTE: The poster is 17]I am a girl in my teens. I have a boyfriend in his early twenties. We are in love for almost two years and now we have planned to elope soon. I have started my college and I am looking for a part time job, but he says he doesn't want me to work and moreover he is planning to leave his current job. I am so confused and he also says he will let me study and we will have our baby only after I finish my college. What do I do? Is it good that I elope? Is it good to not have a part time job? Is it good to continue my college and wait for the baby? And i do want the baby soon enough. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): first of all, a man cannot tell you whether to work or not. it's not his life and he doesn't have a say. first of all, you should wait until you have a steady job to have a baby. a baby can wait a few years. education, right now, is the most important thing in your life. do you want to provide for your baby? good. then, wait a few years. you are young and you can wait a while. slow down. also, i think that if you are going to get married, wait and have your family with you, whether it is a small or big wedding. family is also very important.
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reader, ffogalilly  +, writes (20 April 2010):
You need to go live life and have fun... College is tough enough child-free, have a baby and you'll never go.
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