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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I've known this girl for about two months and I really like her. I met her at a school club, and I got to talk to her a few times. I'm pretty sure she likes me since she keeps looking at me from a distance and when I look back, she quickly looks away. She smiles a lot when I do talk to her, and it seems we have a lot in common. I texted her a few times, but recently, she hasn't been coming out to the club for 2 weeks, and I texted her to see what was going on, but I got no replies. I want to call her to see whats up and to see if she wants to hang out with me this weekend. but I'm too nervous. I know I know, it's silly, but I've called a girl I liked in the past before and it became awkward because I was so nervous that I ran out of things to say. I mean it seems harder because she is shy and I doubt she'll be talking a lot unless I make the conversation interesting. Please give me any tips, personal experience or encouragement on making the first call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2011): First off, I am going to say, "GREAT JOB" for your efforts in actually interacting with your crush! It takes ALOT of courage and girls actually like it when guys like you step up.Second off, There is this quote I believe in alot because it actually is true for most parts: "GUYS: Don't keep her waiting just because you know she will." What this means is GO FOR IT what do you have to lose? Get into the mentality of just accomplishing what you thought of. You will never know what she is thinking UNTIL you ask her. POINT IS JUST DO IT. Third off, Ah, I remember the awkward silence I had with the opposite sex.....it was not fun I can tell you that, but this is how I see it: HAVE FUN. If you are not having fun talking to her how do you think she will feel? ENJOY THE FACT THAT YOU ARE EVEN TALKING TO HER IN THE FIRST PLACE, talk about where you are planning to take her and how it's going to be a great time together! Be fun! Ignite the fire! Girls like guys that connects through having fun! BROWNIE POINTS IF YOUR FUNNY. Now I'm not going to say good luck because that is a load of crap and it's not going to help anyone at all. What I am going to say instead is just do it! BE COURAGEOUS!! It's either you do it or you don't. :) Do not take this to seriously.. enjoy life and do it!
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