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writes: Two weeks ago my girlfriend spent the weekend with another man she told me they slept in the same bed but nothing happened. I want to belive she is not lying but i have my doubts. Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (17 July 2005):
It may be true it may not be, the only people who will ever know for sure are your girlfriend and the man.
If you trust your girlfriend then youll have to believe her and try to put this behind you.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (17 July 2005):
 You dont give much information..... why was she with this other guy ? was it a case of she needed somewhere to crash and shared his bed ? You need to find out why she spent the weekend with him first before anything else.. are they just friends ? are the ex lovers ? does seem strange to spend a weekend away with another man and share his bed... you need to find out more info first and you need to show that you trust her... if you are to be together she needs to know that you trust her... if you love her and care for her then if she says nothing happend then you will have no choice but to accept it... if things are ok with you guys other than this then hopefully she is telling the truth she has at least told you she shared a bed with him.. Let her know that you trust her and that you are a little concerned by this and ask that she not do it again... let her know its because you love her and dont want to doubt her.
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