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writes: i need help so badly...im with a lad i truely wanna be with forever but i keep doubting what im feeling,how do i stop it??leaving him isnt an option please please help me!!!thank you for your time. Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (24 April 2006):
 Dear Reader, my philosophy is this, if I ever have to question something, then its not right. I will give you a trivial materialistic answer to illustrate the point, If I put on an outfit, and I keep saying, "yeah I like it, but..." it means I am not really comfortable with it. You havent put your age on this post, but I sense that you are young, you are thrilled at the idea of being in a relationship, but my darling, I think your mind is saying yes, but your heart is saying no. Sweetie, follow your heart, not your mind or your body. Why is leaving him not an option? You are your won individual, you can do as you please. If your heart is saying "yes" then he is the one, if not..... then you will find Mr Right, when the time is right. God bless. xXx p.s, if you want further advice, feel free to get in touch with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006): the quesion hat you need to answer yourself first is......
do i actually like him ?
and do i want to be with him ?
if yes to both quesitons then you need to re- make the love in your realationship. take him out to dinner, go to the movies or just have dinner at home and have pizza and a rental movie and suggle up to eachother. You can never have too much love in a relationship that the key, make sure your parnter feels loved and make sure you belive that you love him.
if answerd no to second question
well if you dont actually want to be with him then you need to talk to him and say why, dont hold him on, if you dont, then it will only hurt him and you more, than it already has.
hoped this has helped you
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006): i think it is natural to have doubts about relationships, even if you think he is the one. Let him know how you feel. he might be having the same feelings, and you two can go from there. It is best to be honest and tell him how you feel, or else, if you can't be honest, than your relationship will never last forever.
good luck
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