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I want to ask a girl out again, but I'm not sure how long I should wait!?!?

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Question - (10 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *on23 writes:

hello, since me and my g/f broke up a few weeks ago, the other day me and another girl i met started talkin to each other. i asked her if she would let me take her out on a date one nite and she well no im really not lookin to go on dates rite now, she said its nothin at all about u bc ive turned down several other guys lately! well we havent talked in a few days and last nite she sent me a text just askin wut i was doin and we started talkin and she told me to call her today so we talked today and ton. Well my question is by her callin me like that do u think that mite mean somethin bc its not a girl that i really know, we really just met? and i want to joke with her about goin on a date but im not sur how long i should wait to ask her again without scarin her away. does any of u have advice on how long i should wait and how to do it??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

First of all check out some seduction websites David d whatever. Just for pointers. You made the mistake of asking would you like to go on a date. you should have said hey I gotta run so how can we stay in touch. If she gave you her number then you call a couple days later and say your going to the mall or whatever to do whatever does she want to come along and grab some starbucks. Now that she has declined you you should joke with her like she screwed up her chances with you. Just joking, always have the mindset that you're the catch. Play and tease. Seduction is a way to make your life and other's lives better. Don't use people. There is a code, leave them better off than when you found them. So no broken hearts and no one night stands well on that last part unless she's sober and really wants too.

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (10 June 2008):

jay12toes agony aunti met a girl once, and we sorta became friends. after i knew her for about 2 mounths i asked her out and she said no but kinda seemed like she wanted to, so almost everyday i at least told her she looked nice. and exactly one mounth after i asked her out the first time, i asked her out again. and this time she said yes. we have been together for over 4 years now, and were engagged. i hope my story helps.

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