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female
age
36-40,
*ennamckenna
writes:Ok I'm 24 with a 3 yr olds daughter I just found out this morning I'm pregnant again....I'm head over heels in love with her father but he left me almost 2 yrs ago to date another girl......but all along he still had me to help bring him to doctors appts and be there when he needed him its been on and off painful for me to not be able to be with him like we used to be.......3 months ago he moved out of her place and in the past 2 weeks he ended it with her....during the 2 yrs he was gone he and I fooled around.....most recently we have talked a lot about getting back together and taking it slow.......but like I said I'm pregnant and I don't wanna have a child with him again unless him and I can be in a relationship....I don't wanna do this alone.....he doesn't have a job or a licence or his diploma or ged so he doesn't have much going for him....I always have told him I love that he stayed at home and cooked n cleaned and watched after our daughter and I brought the money in.....but he feels he's not a man unless he brings the some money in too....yet he's never tried to change his life or lifestyle so y can't he just be happy as a family where I get the money......I want the baby but I feel like he doesn't any advice??????
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reader, SweetindianGirl +, writes (26 September 2010):
i think you should be in an official relationship, when he feels that heavy responsibility that he is a "husband/fiance/REAL father" he will come around. and airports and universities always hire for security...you should tell himt o look there, and GED? really? its not even a 3 month thing...have your daughter slickly tell himseomething!!!!!!!! like "daddy...how was college"?!
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