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30-35,
*nonyous
writes:hey. basically, i like my flatmate at uni. He knows how i feel through a stupid mistake. however, since we came back after uni, i have kind of changed towards him - i am a lot meaner, don't do things for him anymore and don't chase after him generally. he has noticed this and i have noticed that he comes after me a lot more now and is a lot more nicer to me and does things for me, although he knows how i feel about him. However, yesterday we had an argument over laundry and basically he said that he has been trying to be nice to me for the past month, but all i've given him is attitude, which is true, although i denied it. So now what am i supposed to do? Should i stop giving him attitide, but then thats the only way that he chases after me instead of the other way round. I want him to chase after me coz it makes him realise how important i am to him, but now he's complaining and saying that i'm a mean person. Wat should i do?? Help!!!!
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reader, Trinnity08 +, writes (30 January 2008):
 sounds like a game of cat and mouse , try to get an equal mix of nice and mean then maybe he will realize how much you mean to him good luck
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 Give him a reward when he is nice to you . Then you would not be mean to him. LOL!
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