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writes:My boyfriend is always asking of things he can do to keep me happy, and one day I told him i'd like it if he kissed me on my neck. He said he would, then he kept asking why, and saying that we should just kiss on the lips. /: I only wanted to do it causee I thought it look hot and now he keeps saying he'll do it just to keep me happy.How can I make him want to kiss my neck? (: Reply to this Question
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reader, advice angel +, writes (4 April 2010):
 wear to die for perfume :) always works x
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reader, Jennilove +, writes (4 April 2010):
It sounds like your boyfriend is trying very hard to learn 'how to be' a good boyfriend. Don't knock him for that. You are both still so young. When you get older, you will be seeking out the nice guys who care enough about you to ask how to 'make you happy'.
Meanwhile, I think he kept asking why you wanted him to kiss your neck because (I imagine) he is worrying about doing it right or wrong. After all - he wants to please you. Everyone has some learning to do in relationships and you both are working through the early stages of your sexual exploration. Remember: even if things look hot, thats not a reason to do them. Don't do things you don't feel comfortable with. Take your time, let your feelings for each other grow and things will come naturally (like him knowing what makes you happy) in time. Spend time hanging out, and embrace the kissing!
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reader, stellaforstar +, writes (4 April 2010):
 Maybe he just doesn't understand why you like it so much and doubts that it is any better than kissing on the lips which he knows how to do and is comfortable with? Try doing it to him so he feels what you feel and then ask him if he likes it. Then suggest he do it to you and then.. show him how much you like it. Make a bit deal about how good it feels and he will get the message. He will like seeing how much you like it and that he must be doing it right...
I don't know if you think this is relevant but remember you are both young and so still a little unsure of each other.
Also, maybe he just really likes kissing on the lips lol. He may be just sticking to what he knows and loves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2010): Bbes u can't make him want to,and if he's askin u wat he can do to make u happy and then questioning it maybe he doesn't want to do anythin to make u happy nd relli he wnts u to do stuff for him.ur relationship shudnt seem so uncomfortable and u shud already no wt eachotha wants .I hope this helped lol I'm new at this ;)x
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