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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I love a guy, he also loves me but he has a friend(female) whom he cares more than me because she was already in his life before i came. That girl is divorcee n has already a kid, he says she's nothing but a very good friend of him. He says he loves me a lot but doesn't care to call me even more than one time in a day. He meets me very rarely but when we are together he cares a lot. I love him a lot n don't want to loose him. Please suggest me how to make this relationship better and make him to love me more..Please suggest soon!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008):
There are things worrying me here:
You seem very desperate for this man's attention/affection.
You are also very insecure about your relationship with him and feel threatened by his friend.
I almost get the impression you care more for him and the relationship then he does.
Is that the case?
I suggest you must relax,be calm, take it easy.
Don't be needy or clingy, that will keep him away and at a distance.
I also think the only way you will be able to improve this relationship is that you have a heart to heart talk with him about what you want from him and the relationship and hear how he feels and what he wants. This way you will avoid any misunderstandings and maybe even possible hurt.
You cannot make somebody love you more, that is something that happens naturally, but you can push them away from you or make them fall out of love if you are not carefull.
Have the chat with him!
Good luck!
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