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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): Be absolutely ravishing. Make him remember the bright, beautiful, gorgeous girl he met. Ooze confidence.
Put yourself in a place he is bound to be, and be unavailable. Not nasty because that shows you care and remember - you don't care! Be utterly charming, gorgeous, calm, confident, happy... and NOT available.
Don't say you are unavailable at any time. let your actions speak for you. Flirt with others but don't go too far, just let your ex see how admired you are.
this will bring him back to you quicker than he can say YES!
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (5 July 2006):
 You best bet is to move on and make yourself the best of what you can be in all ways both careerwise and also look for someone else that will treat you much better and is twice the man that he is.For me that will be the greatest revenge so that when he happens to run into you later on in life or he hears about you then he will know that you are now an empowered woman who has made her life so much better despite how he treated you. He will know that he couldnt break you spirit and your life took a better turn when you left him.
Also, you will know that he wasnt the right one for you and you will be thankful because the effect of what happened has been a great experience and has improved your life in all ways.
Goodluck dear
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): Take some "alone time" to evaluate what happened and what you can do to never, ever repeat this mistake, again. Your self-esteem took a good 'hit' over this, so I understand your desire for revenge. But it's probably better for your self-esteem in the long run to behave with class, maturity and make a decision to just live a good life. A cad like this is not worth the emotional energy of seeking revenge. Why waste precious time. If it is hard for you to let go, keep a journal of all the horrible things you would like to do to him...but don't do it. Eventually you will stop writing because in time, you will have moved on with your life. Just know one thing, you are much better and you can get through this without lowering yourself to his level. Good luck dear and be strong.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (4 July 2006):
 Best to make him regret what he's done is to move on, make out that what happen between you two was nothing, that you can move on and do better. once he see how you move on, how what his done doesn't affect you and you are happy with someone else he'll be pissed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006): I doubt very much you could make him regret what he has done. In stead you should look to the future and learn from any mistakes you made with him. Guys and girls can be quite different when it comes to intentions towards dating and sex, use this experience to make sure you arn't used again. Good luck in the future!
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