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*ensativeguy010
writes:Well I met this girl on a free dating website and we hit it off pretty well, we emailed everyday and after about a week she gave me her number and wanted to be friends on facebook. We both know what we are looking for in partners and she seems to think we are pretty compatible so far and enjoys talking to me and getting to know me. She told me she likes to take things slow to see if the guy is long term material. I really like this girl and feel strongly attracted to her and hope things work out. But I can't seem to get her to want to act more interested. I feel like she's holding back. Some nights she will get ahold of me and we will txt/chat for a bit and somedays she's just kinda distant. She and I have made plans to hang out and she said she would promise to make it happen. She's also pretty busy with school and work. Buuut I still kinda feel like she's playing hard to get or something. I just would like to know if there's anything I can try to get her to be more interested and stop holding back? Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011): Well shes obviously just cautious. Maybe she was hurt in the past. My advise would be to make her see she can trust you. If she is cautious then i would not advise you to play hard to get because this will definitely not help her open up, if anything it will push her away. Just be kind and thoughtful and she will gradually see she can trust you and open up.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (15 June 2011):
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you cant make someone feel for you in the way you do for them, they will only do that when they are ready too. As she has already told you she likes to take things slow, if you really do like her then she will see that by your being patient , and letting her see you really do want to be with her, and not just a online fling. Give her more time, and just keep being you, the guy she is probally slowly falling for x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): Play hard to get too! That way you'll see if she cares about you! If she does, she will text you first, but be patient, int's not going to happen fast.
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