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writes:Hi guys, right to cut a long story short, I was needy / clingy, she got mad, we nearly split, we sorted it out and now have sorted some "ground rules" no texting 100 times a day, no constantly telling her I love her, couple of days ago she says that our convo is boring and we should have stuff to talk about, i wrote on here a few days ago asking to explain a text, well we spoke about it and she said that our convo is boring when we text. She thinks we should have stuff to talk about, but how? I mean, if you have done nothing all day what is there to talk about? If something happens I would tell her, we love each other but I really get hurt, especially lately, I have put SO much effort in to trying to stop this clingy needy stuff, and I thought I had done well, instead of being proud of me i get told i am boring, what can I do just to make her happy? i dont want to lose her, i want to be the man she fell in love with 7 years ago, please help me just think of something that will make her happyLove james x
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reader, Jesc  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Oh my....
I am very sorry huni.
I wish there was more I could say to make you feel better... But there really is nothing.
Gosh... I am very sorry tho.
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reader, JayLovesSam +, writes (4 August 2010):
JayLovesSam is verified as being by the original poster of the question I was just about to call her last night and literally as soon as I picked the phone up I recieved a text message and I got dumped last night :(, by a text message, but thanks for the advice guys....:(
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reader, Jesc +, writes (4 August 2010):
I agree with "Gettinginyourbizness"
What you said is very sweet. Just let her know that. :)
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reader, GettingInYourBizness +, writes (3 August 2010):
 James..
I remember your other post.
I was reading this current one and this really stood out:
She thinks we should have stuff to talk about, but how? I mean, if you have done nothing all day what is there to talk about?
If something happens I would tell her, we love each other but I really get hurt, especially lately, I have put SO much effort in to trying to stop this clingy needy stuff, and I thought I had done well, instead of being proud of me i get told i am boring, what can I do just to make her happy? i dont want to lose her, i want to be the man she fell in love with 7 years ago, please help me just think of something that will make her happy
Dude, that right THERE is perfect, I would talk to her (not text) and tell her what you just said here, if she loves you, she will love what you just wrote.
Call her and ask, let us know what she says...
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