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writes:My partner/girlfriend have broken up a week ago because I looked in her phone and txt her boss pretending to be her.Also my girls who are 9 and 10 dont really get along with her as the girls mother is asking what was said when they come over and stay My girlfriend said at the moment she is very emotional and only wants to be friends and that will be in a few months and that it will only be a friendship.I want her back in my life and need some advice on which way to go do i move on as i dont want this
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (14 October 2011):
 Why on earth did you text her boss? Why were you looking through her phone in the first place?
It sounds to me like you have massively broken your girlfriend's trust and I dont blame her for wanting to be friends, that sort of behaviour is not acceptable so chances are you have lost her for good I'm afraid.
Probably best for you to respect her wishes and leave her alone - you cant force her to want you back, you have done wrong here and you are now suffering the consequences. If you treat people badly you cannot expect them to put up with it, if you do something bad then you have to be prepared that your actions could cause you problems. In your case it has led to her wanting to break up with you and if that is what she wants then you have to accept it and move on I'm afraid.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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