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*ivejust2bJess
writes:Im really down in the dumps. I feel like I have no one to talk to and people who im there for arent there for me. Ive tried talking to people but its like they dont want to deal with any of my problems. And lately I been thinking about my ex boyfriend and that led me to miss him. I been feeling this way for a long time. We been together for over a year until he broke up with me almost a year ago but i cant stop thinking or have feelings for him. I want him back and but i dont know where to go from there. He lives some what close but far enough to where I dont see him at all. He doesnt have a cell phone that I know of and I have no idea how to make contact with him. Ive tried dating other guys but to be honest it isnt the same. I know my ex was the one for me, but it was something I lied about that set him off. I know that what I did was wrong and if I could take it all back I would. But i wanna prove to him that I changed and wont do it again but how can I when i dont know how to reach him. And when I do find a way, what do I say, where do I go from there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): I would say "the one" for you wouldn't break up with you and disappear. Yeah, you may have lied about something but unless you cheated, a boyfriend who loves you and been with you over a year will probably forgive smaller lies. It sounds like your lie was just the final straw on many other things piled up he didn't want to deal with. I would move on and not look back in hindsight and glorify the relationship. It will help you move on like he has.
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