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writes: I am a bloke and usually always take the lead in bed. the tables were turned on the the other night though. I scored with this girl and she was totally dominating in bed almost to the point of intimidation. She also had the vocal skills to match. I was a bit thrown by the whole thing. also I am a bit red raw and brutalised down there. what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): So she likes it rough, eh?Well roll with it... but don't just LET her have the upper hand, you are physically stonger as a male. If she wants domination make her fight for it, make her trully understand what it is to dominate someone.Its more than just tying someone up and riding them until their balls explode, any old whore can do that.It has to be trust. Both of you have to trust one another so completely that you know the other will not harm you, no matter how rough the sex gets, no matter how much pain is caused. You both have to let go and let the pther in.That is true domination.Flynn 24
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Teach her to watch out with the teeth. Use a little Neosporin on your wounds and stay away from her until you heal. And congratulations . . . maybe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Lick your wounds and pat yourself on the back for standing up to it. What you experienced, it sounds, is what some women may feel like, a rag doll. From the tone of the night, I'm sure I would have been brought out on a stretcher. Now if you can go back for round 2, you'll be more man then most of us.
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