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I turned down 3 serious dates and now he no longer pursues me

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Question - (16 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 51-59, anonymous writes:

after turning down 3 serious dates from a guy he no longer seem to pursue me. we both express that we are attracted to each other.i however would like to take things slower(at my pace).when we cross paths now he acknowledges me and promises to visit but never does.i dont understand his behaviour.is he shy or no longer interested?should i call or is this a no no?

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A male reader, Matt269 United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

Matt269 agony auntYeah you can't really blame him. Rejection is hard. You can't reject a guy 3 times and expect him to keep trying. Its just not fair to him. So he probably moved on. Sorry but next time try to express that you wish to take things slow and don't reject a guy so much unless you really aren't interested in dating him.

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