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writes:After making love i told my partner of 5 months that i care about him a lot....he just said aww thank you? I hoped he would have said similar but he just hugged me. I am 63,...he is 50.am i hoping for too much. We see each other 4 or 5 times a week. He has only stayed over once but we have had a couple weekends away. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 December 2015):
 Yes you do need to talk to him, if you are not feeling that he likes you the same way that you like him then there usually is no smoke without fire, I wish you luck, if you ever need someone to talk to I am here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou both for your replies, guess i knew deep down the answers but was hoping i was expecting too much too early. I need to talk to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2015): Sex (making love) is not a testing ground for how somebody really feels about you. Try having a conversation about the depth of your relationship now and it's future potential when you're outside that situation. Yes he could have said more or something different in reply. Only a guess but it sounds like he doesn't feel the same as you....but felt good about what you said. You pleased him but didn't get much back.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (11 December 2015):
No I don't think you are expecting to much, everyone has needs that need to be met if they want to be in a happy relationship. You need to talk to him and ask him how he feels you are both going and what can he see in the future.
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