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female
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26-29,
*taceStacia
writes:I met a guy in February. We met twice and got along so well but due to work we hardly met up as I work weekends . He recently messaged asking to take me out and I agreed. We spent quality time and he told me his deep secrets and we got so close In two hours. I felt like we really understood each other. We then went out that night, after partying we took a taxi home. We landed up having sex, but before we had sex I asked him to promise me that he would message me and not treat it like a one night stand and that it won't change our friendship .. He promised it wouldn't and e told me he liked me . The next day we got up and he asked me to chill with him before he took me home, I spent time with his mum dad and sister then they left the house and him and I had sex again. We messaged fine for like four days then he started acting all weird . And not replying me .. What should I do? Did he use me ?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (18 June 2015):
 Don't text/call him any more. I think if he was GENUINELY interested in you, he would make more of an effort.
Did he use you? That is hard to say, he may not have done this on purpose, but he didn't really give much regards to your "I don't want to be a ONS" either.
TELLING a guy that you don't want to be a ONS doesn't mean he HAS to do as you say.
Maybe next time wait with the sex til you have DATED the guy fro a couple of months?
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