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writes: i met this guy on a kind of holiday thing with my skl n i really liked him, but my kind of mate (we arent really mates any more) flirted with him loads n he picked er over me. they broke up a few weeks later and then he kept telling me he loved me so much n we were kind of seein eachother. then he suddenly liked her again. he lives about 2 and a half hours away but me n him met up the other day and we kissed a few times and acted like we were going out. i thought maybe he would like me again after this but he still likes my other mate. what do i do because i really like him and really want to go out with him??
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reader, LISAG +, writes (4 November 2006):
 I'd forget him, easier said then done. But if he's picked someone else over you two times now, what's to say he won't do that again, coz he will. If a man really really likes you, no other girl will get a look in... We all want what we can't have and in this case he's made it clear he still like your other mate. Let her have him, he'll prob. only do to her what he did to you. Plenty more fish in the sea. Holiday romances are usually exactly that, brief fleeting encounters which usually fizzle out especially if you live 2 1/2 hours away from one another ! "kind of seein each other" is not "actually seein each other" is it? If a man wants you to himself he will make that clear, if he's eyeing up your friends - get rid ! You will find a man who only has eyes for you and that is what you need, not some flippant player who cares only about his needs. Plus true friends don't dabble with your ex-boyfriends, let along go with a man who they know you like. As you get older you'll find different and better female friends. Probably not what you want to hear but my honest opinion.
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