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I think she's cheating on me!

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Question - (12 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

k so my girlfriend and me have been together only a few months now but we've been thru more than wat alot of have had to go thru already.. well from here basicly.. a few months ago she sent a message to her x telling him she still love him.. he sent back asking really and she says "idk".. (ps i have permission to go thru her messages from her).. but she says she was joking so i said ok and "forgot about it".. then just today.. i find out she keeps getting more condoms (she says she has 36 so when i go to her house i'll check :) --smiley face)

but we dont even know if they fit me... so i said ok cause she says there for me! well today also she was talking to me.. i said i love you (her name) and she say i love you to (x'es name)... i asked her if she just said (x'es name) an she said no she just said she love me... although i know i heard her name.. then a hour later her best-friend is saying how she just broke up with 1 of her 2 boyfriends.. so she was cheating on her boyfriends... so i'm really susupicious and i just asked her mom if she knows anything and no reply yet but i might later.. anyway do you guys/girls know wat i should do?

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A female reader, owensgurl16 United States +, writes (13 January 2011):

hey dude look im a girl an i been threw it with a guy i would break up with her cause she is goin to keep on cheatin on u an ur just goin to get hurt in the long run im tellin u its not fun getttin hurt or u could sit down with her an talk aobut the sistuation an see wht she says an if she is cheatin on u tell her she has a choice quit cheatin or loose me thats wht i would do belive me i beeen threw it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011):

It's a possibility that she might still have feelings for her x. But talk to her about it. If she admits that she does then, you make the decision there. But considering the fact that she had 2 boyfriends then she was cheating. Either way. Just do what you think is right and since oyu have permission to go through her txt messages. just keep watching them and see what she says. then if u notice something suspicious that you don't like, ask her about it.

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