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writes: im not exactly what youd call the most popular kid in school and i see this goddess of a girl and i want her to like me.problem is i dont know how to get her to notice me and her friends are all pretty anonamouse to me.Any suggestions?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (4 June 2006):
 For a start you have to work on your own confidence, and then take the 'goddess' off that pedestal as she is a normal human being just like you at the end of the day. If you worship at her altar before you get to know her then you may be heading for a big disappointment - she maybe a pretty girl, but you have to get to know her to work out if she is 'pretty interesting' on the personality front too. I know this dating thing can be torture but you cannot get this girl to like you just because you want it. Instead, you must like yourself as girls like confident (not arrogant) boys. If you like yourself, then it will not matter if she likes you or not. If you ask her on a date, or befriend her, and find out she likes you then great. If she doesn't, then it is her loss because you know you are a great person! Good luck!!!
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