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writes:Hi I need some advice.Its related to a girl at work who i thinks likes me.Over the past 3 months.1. She has been staring lots2. My mate transferred to her department and she asked a little about me and said to my mate "i seemed like a nice guy"3. In the last 3 weeks our chats have became more personal.4. The other day we had a 3 to 5 second gaze.5. When we speak she is always smiling and looks into my eyes and pays attention to me.6. I touched her shoulder and i swear i saw it tremoe afterwards.However, just the last couple of days i ahve noticed her avioding my eye contact, like the other day i was in the kitchen and she walked past to go outside quickly looked and then went and played with her phone like she meant to do it.Im abit confused whats your thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): Thank you for your answers, its only been in the last 3 to 4 weeks that our chats have lasted longer and are more personal and they are fun plenty of laughs and smiles and eye contact. I think i will wait and see what happens there is a work social event happening in 2 weeks, i usually dont go however, i have been conned into going by my direct work collegues.
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reader, Cookie93  +, writes (4 May 2012):
Maybe she's just starting to realize that she kind of has feelings for you and she doesnt know how to handle it so she is a bit shy and I think that if I was behaving like this it is because I want to see you and talk to you but at the same time I don't know what to say and I'm a bit afraid to mess it up and that's why I would rather avoid eye contact... It could also be the other way arround, that she started to notice you like her but she doesn't have the same feelings and is trying to avoid you. You won't know until you don't act to find out. But don't do it too fast. Wait first see if she keeps on doing this. Don't push her too much. Maybe go on distance for a little little bit as well first, she might come back... If she doesnt give it a last shot and go talk to her, ask her out. Don't be afraid, no risk, no fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): Maybe she's just starting to realize that she kind of has feelings for you and she doesnt know how to handle it so she is a bit shy and I think that if I was behaving like this it is because I want to see you and talk to you but at the same time I don't know what to say and I'm a bit afraid to mess it up and that's why I would rather avoid eye contact... It could also be the other way arround, that she started to notice you like her but she doesn't have the same feelings and is trying to avoid you. You won't know until you don't act to find out. But don't do it too fast. Wait first see if she keeps on doing this. Don't push her too much. Maybe go on distance for a little little bit as well first, she might come back... If she doesnt give it a last shot and go talk to her, ask her out. Don't be afraid, no risk, no fun.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (4 May 2012):
 If all you've got is some eye contact and a few comments, I think you have a shy nervous person as a colleague. Is it appropriate to date in your office?
If you want to get to know her, ask your mate and her out for coffee after work sometime to see if she accepts, maybe adding more people to make it a larger group and a bit more casual-feeling. If she does, maybe she has an interest in getting to know you. If she doesn't, she probably doesn't.
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