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writes: I've been seening this guy for over 1 yr. We have recently been having problems in our relationship.I have gotten violent 1 time but I'm sure it has to due with the alcohol and drugs that we both do together.I've not done this stuff since I was in my 20's.I told him I've only have gotten nasty because of all the intake I've had. However, he has also gotten abusive but just verbally. He wants to continue this relationship but not as committed at we once had. He does not see his negativity in this relationship, only mine. I told him what we need to fix this is just a break in all our intake. He feels we need to distant this relationship for a period of time. I do love him very much and we never had this problem until we got outta control. Do you belive we need to separate as he does? I feeel I have owned up to my part and belive he is putting it all on my and not us. I want to continue seeing him on a committed basis, and just slow down on all the intake. He feels its only me that is outta control. What do you think?
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reader, Smiler +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Hi thereWell where to start here, i have read your question over and over just to be sure i was seeing things from your point of veiw, and babe it has to be said that i have to agree with both of you in some parts because i do think maybe some time apart would help you miss each other and clear your heads a little, but i also agree with you saying that the problem lies with the booze and drugs thats just like adding fuel to and already burning fire i think you need to try and calm down your intake of both of the above and concentrate on working on your relationship.hope this helps a littleYou Take Care X
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