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writes:I think my boyfriend is taking me for granted and possibly cheating on the internet. I don't have any proof, just a gut feeling. He doesn't live in the same state as I do, so we only see one another on week-ends. He is great when we are together. Very attentive. But when he goes back home I rarely hear from him. He calls 2 times a week at the most. I need more than I am getting.Should I just call it quits now or try to understand. If he really cared about me, wouldn't he want to call or instant message every day? Am I being too demanding and childish to want more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): Im in the same position,as for the internet cheating!
If you feel it in your Guts then trust it.
Take care honey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): I think you two need to talk more. Let him know how you feel. He might think you are ok with this set up. Lay your cards on the table and state exactly what you want. If he doesn't like it or doesn't change then i think it is time to get rid. If he can't put aside a little more time then he doesn't deserve you.
Take care
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): Long distance relationship is hard - and makes the most secure person insecure - it happened to me... I started suspecting he was being unfaithful (after having several anonymous calls) and started to ask too much questions... he dumped me 2mths later and he just never told me reason... now i know he was being 'unfaithful' on mirc - telling people he was single (even after 14mths with me) and having sexual chats ... but deep down (even if i dont have any proof) I dont think he was physical cheating on me... just be sure before dumping him that you are doing the right decision - i miss him alot now but think that after all I want a man that love me enough to tell the world that he is committed not single after a yr going out with me -- goodluck :)
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 hello therei would say u are worrying too much, but im not sure if u do call him or just waiting to hear from him, did u try and ask him why he doesnt call often or u thought he will gez or he will know he suppose to? not all people have romatic bones in their bodies, some men are not the talkative types, if he calls twice he feels u know how he feels unless u tell him what u like they wont change not because their stupid or insensitive or uncaring but because of who they are its their character. i would say try to understand his character because crucifying ur relationship u might be just feeling insecure out of nothing and loose something genuine just because of unfounded gut feeling. a distant relationship can be unnerving at times bcos u might sense some signals that do not mean anything and get urself worked up, so girl relax and let communication be a priority remember he cant read ur mind. hope this works.Jovial
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