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writes: I seem to be sick of my fiance, I just want to argue with him all the time and don't feel I want him around. I love him so much and I thought about it all this morning when we were lying in bed and just cried. He's getting sick of my moods and doesn't understand what is wrong with me. Nor do I! When he's not there I miss him but when he is there I just don't want him to be. I'm so upset with myself and the last thing I want to do is drive him away
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): i think you need to spice up your relationship alot of relationships fail because we stop talking and doing things with each other. try to be spontanious but also think why it is that you may be fed up is it because you do nothing together anymore, or maybe it is time to move on
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reader, camille  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 You need to get to the bottom of this fast but maybe it's not your fiance that's the problem. Perhaps you are taking something else out on him? Have a think of any stressful situations that are around you. Planning a wedding could be it. Obviously it doesn't sound too good to be planning a wedding with someone you're biting at all the time. Maybe you need to speak to a professional to get a better understanding. It's also a vicous circle, so try and break it, if you're getting snappy, stop yourself, ask why and try hard to lay off your fella or he may just walk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2006): Hey,If you miss him when he's not there, but then are angry with him when you see him, this suggests to me than you’re actually angry with someone else. I'm not sure how long you've been in this relationship but it’s possible that your transferring your anger onto him, people do this when they feel comfortable and in a sense, complacent. Do you have an issue with someone or something, which you know deep down that you haven’t addressed?
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