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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i was talking about how some women are superficial and feel like if they don't have this expensive wedding and a man with a lot of money that they did not want that man....i in defending some women simply stated that there is nothing wrong with a man with money...i was taught that a man should be the provider, but i have no problem in splitting things 50/50. then the ultimate question came up, " are you in love with me?" i said no but i love you.but when i think about it, i really don't know the difference between the two and i went to tell him that, he didn't want to hear it...i'm so confused because now he's mad at me....my question is how do i fix this without getting hurt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): Dont be manipulated into giving an answer you are not ready to give. If he is sulking then ignore him until he snaps out of it. As for the men providing, its good you told him so that if he is not up to the task then better he goes now.
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reader, raiders +, writes (8 April 2010):
 First you have to be sure if you love him and in which way you love him. You can love a dog, you can love your car, now do you love him or are you in-love with him. Don't give him an answer you don't mean just to not make him mad, be honest. You have to be honest to yourself and once you have realize in which way you love him tell him. Talk to him and if he loves you he will be happy to know that you correspond him back.
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