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writes:So I met this guy a few weeks ago... we hit it off immediately, we have loads in common and he's such a great guy in everyway, he can make me laugh till im practically crying and i feel so at ease with him (Normally i get so nervous that i can't speak!)I really like him and i think he likes me too (Cause you can tell sometimes right) But i'm two inches taller than him and most guys hate that, I'm not worried about it myself, but i can't help but think he's put of by that. I don't know what to do! any one else been in a similar situation?? how did you resolve it?? Any replies will my appreciated hugely! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAgain thank you all so much!
You've all been so helpful =]
I'm really gonna try my best now with the renewed faith you have given me!!
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (25 September 2010):
 I am 6'2", and I once dated a girl who was a statuesque 6'4", and loved her heels.
She was always worried about her height compared to her boyfriends, but just couldn't bring herself to wear flat shoes. It really doesn't matter about height, what matters is whether you both feel comfortable with each other, and if you don't mind what other people perceive. It may be a question of maturity.
Just re-assure him that you like HIM, no matter if he's shorter than yourself. He is the one who you want to be with, not his height.
With my ex, my opinion was that other people were jealous. I mean, she was shapely, gorgeous, tall, long dark hair - and she was with me. And those legs ....... those were the days! If he's put off, believe me, it's his loss.
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reader, Hungry89  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 Hello :) well ONE if the guy has a problem with it then he shouldnt date you and TWO so what who cares if your taller than him last time i checked it wasnt against the law..the only person that it can bother is you two if you let it..its no different from my girl and i she is alot bigger than me and im a tall skinny white boy..but i love her so who cares what anyone else thinks! geez lol if you like each other then go for it! good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): yah i have been in the same situation i am alsoo taler than this guy that i think likes me to and in like a 2 feet taller than him but i know he likes me becuse i leaned on him and he didnt care he cuddled a littl whith meand if the guy i like is anything like the guy u like he wont care as long he likes u and u like him p.s. im also in middle school. :*
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