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anonymous
writes:I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him and was attracted to him, now he has arranged a disciplinary with me for texting him - I feel embarrassed and betrayed - what do you guys think out there???
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): If you text your boss and say that you fancy him obviously he will have to take you aside and check that you are still a capable worker and can put your feelings aside, because they probably don't like you like that and would prefer to be professional about this. I'd be wanting to set things straight if i were the boss!!!!
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reader, 1perrito  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 First of all, let me ask: Is he married?What do you know about him?If he's single, great. But, be warned. Working and being involved with your work leader will cause friction between you and your co-workers.Rumors, Rumors, Rumors!You might have to get another job if you get involved with him. That might not be so bad, right?Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): I think he has over-reacted by getting human resources involved to carry out a disciplinary. Major OVER-REACTION.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Why and how do you feel betrayed? If you thought he was interested then you clearly misread him. He was probably just being nice. Hope the disciplinary is not a pick slip. You just have to get over it and learn from it. Don't beat yourself over it.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 How were you betrayed? Did your boss come on to you first? If not, then he's simply putting you in your place. Consider yourself lucky this happened, love affairs with the boss usually end in disaster anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): I applaud your boss, he is a great man. We should have more of him around.
He is your boss from your place of employment. What you did is against every company policy.
Well I just hope the disciplinary action is not termination. If it's not, then you should be happy coz some people get fired. Have a meeting with those responsible for determining the action to be taken. Be honest and just plead your case, and apologize for your actions.
I'm curious, was your boss showing interest in you?
If you don't get fired, don't be too hard on yourself. It's life and stuff happens, and just remember it could be worse. In time, you will laugh about it.
Sorry and good luck.
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