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writes:im feeling really confused just now, i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and its been great ive never wanted to be with anyone else... he makes me feel happy just knowing he's around but the other day we were at a party and i met a guy who i spent half the time talking to and laughing at cause he was funny... i don't like this guy and he has a girlfriend anyway but for some reason meeting him has made me think a lot about me and my boyfriend and now every time i look at him or think about him i feel upset ... i don't know whats going on can anyone help ?
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reader, Shah88X  +, writes (13 October 2008):
Here, I'll make this simple and short first.Let's call this guy you met, Mr. A.I will remind you, that you probably do not like Mr. A, but you do like some of his qualities which are present.So, the fact that you like Mr. A's qualities, makes you seek for them in your current boyfriend.Perhaps you are forgetting the reason why you love your boyfriend in the first place?Remember that every person is unique, and that you love your boyfriend for who he is, and what he is.For that uniqueness.Don't let the confusion get to you.I'll leave you with a Japanese quote to think about:"A bird in your hand is worth two in the bush."
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 Actually, you probably did like the other guy. That is normal. It will happen again no matter who you're with. Relationships are about the big picture. It is important to see the big picture because if we ever get stuck on the small details we'd never be able to stick with anyone.
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