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I have asked him for a break so I can get my head together, am I doing the right thing for us both?

Q.   Hi, this is kind of long I hope you don't mind. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and I've just split up with him. I've been having a really hard time recently with a lot of thoughts going through my head so I took a break from him for a week...

A.   13 October 2008: Thinking about the past brings back memories, and moments of desperation where you would do... Unthinkable things. From my experience, if there's something I want to share with you, it's to learn to be selfish for yourself at times. Be... (read in full...)

I talked to another guy at a party, he was entertaining and made me question my relationship with my boyfriend, what's going on?

Q.   im feeling really confused just now, i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and its been great ive never wanted to be with anyone else... he makes me feel happy just knowing he's around but the other day we were at a party and i met a ...

A.   13 October 2008: Here, I'll make this simple and short first. Let's call this guy you met, Mr. A. I will remind you, that you probably do not like Mr. A, but you do like some of his qualities which are present. So, the fact that you like Mr. A's qualities, make... (read in full...)

Why did she suddenly have a loss of feelings?

Q.   Back then, me and my girl, we met each other online. I can't really say much of my status now with her. We're together for 2months plus now. We played the same game together, and after a period of time, we found that we liked each other very mu...

A.   8 September 2008: Thanks Emajayne for your input. I appreciate it a lot. Up till 10pm, she did not reply to my messages, so I take it as she wanted me to go. It's over. Even towards the end, she greeted me with silence. I did ask, is it me? Or is it us? She sai... (read in full...)

How can I defuse this situation, did I lead him on?

Q.   Grrrrr ive gone and complicated my life. After a turbulant split from someone in january (my decision) ive been going in a certain pub every weekend, and made some frieds of the regulars. But one particular guy has marriage problems, and me being a ...

A.   7 September 2008: Be frank and tell him the truth. Men appreciate the truth, and hard facts. Trust me, as a man, we'd rather take it all in our faces rather than learn about it slowly. It'll hurt. =\ Hope that helps.... (read in full...)

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