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writes:i have a boyfriend and we have been with him for a year but when he says he is going to ring me he never does and its is really annoying. espeacially as i stay up a long time at night to wait for the call. please help x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Let him know how annoying it is when he says he will phone you and then does not do so.
DON'T take the phone to bed with you! You are only 13, and need all your sleep - not to be woken up in the wee hours of the morning by this inconsiderate boy - and maybe waking your parents as well!
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reader, Noni  +, writes (3 September 2007):
Dont eva wait up on him anymore coz i know how irritating it is to wait on someone as my b/f does that a lot but ever since i told him i hate it, that doesn't bother me at all when he doesn't call. I enjoy myself and when he calls then its a suprise. why does he needs to be reminded when he knows he has a g/f.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (3 September 2007):
 Don't stay up and make yourself ill anymore hunni. My boyfriend has done this on occassion and I too have sat up and waited. My partner normally has fallen asleep as soon as he gets in from work which is why he doesn't call.
Take your phone to bed with you and if he rings it'll wake you up. If it doesn't then it doesn't.
You also need to tell your guy that telling you he's going to call then doesn't upsets you. He may think you are ok with it if nothing is said. I wouldn't be. And my other half gets my tired strop the next day if I'm up late because of it.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): I think that it is pretty insensitive of him to not call when he says he is going to, but I have found many men to be this way. You should tell him that it bothers you when he doesn't call when he says he is going to. Maybe if he realizes that it upsets you, he'll stop doing it. My ex-boyfriend used to do that to me all the time and it drove me insane. Eventually I just didn't anticipate his calls at all. That's what you ought to do as well. Just don't expect him to call, and certainly don't wait up all night for him to call. When he does call it will be a pleasant surprise, but don't let yourself get down if he doesn't. Just try not to weigh so much importance on it. Do other things you need to get done, then you won't even notice he hasn't called. I hope it all works out. Best of luck!
-RJGirl
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