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I sometimes think of him just as a friend. Does this I mean I don't love him?

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Question - (5 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *lectrO_ClaSH_xXx writes:

ok. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 8 months. and i've liked him a lot longer. even before we started dating again. and yes i love him. and he loves me. but we've been fighting alot latly. and sometimes when i'm around him i just feel as though hes a friend. but then the thought of breaking up with him or trying to kills me. like i want to be with him. but i sometimes only think of him as a friend. what should i do? does this mean im losing my love for him?

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A female reader, ElectrO_ClaSH_xXx United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

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ElectrO_ClaSH_xXx agony auntyea ive tried that. and it seems like when we try that i can't. likei miss him and i want to be around him even more.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntMaybe you need some space apart. I don't mean breaking up, but you know like spending say maybe a week away from each other. I know what you mean. I've had that experience before where I like a guy, but then sometimes I feel nothing for him. Disney movies have brainwashed most of us into thinking that we should always have fuzzy warm feelings inside or that if we don't we don't really love the person. Yeah he's gonna annoy you sometimes. That's part of relationships. Doesn't mean you don't love him.

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