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writes:She rejected me about 1 week ago. She is my friend and I made sure that she only wanted to be friends, she said yes. I really liked her for several years (just about how long our friendship has been). Anyway, today a different girl asked me for help in Physics class, so I helped her and talked to her and we shared a couple of good laughs. When I looked up, I saw my friend, the one that rejected me, staring back and she looked pretty angry. Later, in calculus, she comes over and asks for help. I didn't really want to talk to her, but I helped anyway. I showed her how to do the problem, but I didn't flirt with her or make any jokes. Now she seems very angry. Did I do something wrong? What does this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): By what you said she probibly likes some one liking her and wants to keep it like that and is angry when you have a chance to like some one else so its not you it her and she needs to get over the fact that she rejected you and you are going to like other people!
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (14 September 2007):
No, this is how some people just are, you did nothing wrong. Even though you were rejected, it doesn't mean that she didn't like the attention. Now that you're giving it to someone else, it is making her jealous. Perhaps she is even reconsidering your offer now.
I had a friend I once went on a date with. It was weird because we just sort of knew each other way too well. She was the one that decided not to pursue it though. Every time she thought I might have been on a date, she acted REALLY, REALLY jealous.
Every time I tried to talk about this with her, she'd avoid it, and then without my knowledge one of her friends gave her the speech that she was the one who didn't want to be with me and has to let me live my life. Basically, it was your situation, just dragged out in a longer time frame.
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