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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am so insecure. I have just started a new relationship and am waiting for him to realise im not good enough and to move on. I have been cheated on before but my trouble is I see EVERYONE in the world as being so much better than me and I feel so inadequate.My paranoia is driving away my friends and I dont know how to stop. I wish I didn't have to live like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): I am like you so much, but try to not judge your current boyfriend as a cheating type, your ex obviously knocked your confidence! I am the same though and I know it is hard. I am reading a book at the moment called "The worry cure" and it is really good and actually makes me laugh as I discovered I am a real worrier, the book is helping me think more postively and avoid thinking about the "what-ifs". I dumped my first serious boyfriend because he was on drugs, my second boyfriend went cold on me overnight and I found out he was with someone else, then I got together with another boyfriend who moved in with me, and he went off with a married woman! My ex just dumped me too, so I am so lacking confidence at the moment!
I am thinking about seeking therapy too because I need to start loving myself. My lack of confidence could be what is driving men away. I feel so low.
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