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writes:I told my boyfriend of 4 months that i loved him, thinking that he felt the same. But he didnt and now i feel stupid and hurt. He says he cares about me alot but doesnt feel in love with me just yet.Has anyone else been in a situation like this.....and how did it make you feel? Reply to this Question |
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reader, daisyb212 +, writes (23 September 2007):
 i agree with previous answere, don't worry too much about it, keep things fun, it'll come in time
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reader, daisyb212 +, writes (23 September 2007):
what u did was very brave! i have been considering telling my boyfriend as we have been together for 9 months, but havn't yet! all i can say is at least he was honest with u and u r lucky! he could have said it back to spare ur feelings so u should admire him for this, and when he does say it u will know its the truth and it will be much more meaningful to you! my advice is to just try and forget u said it and carry on as u r! its only been four months and he probably doesn't want to say it till he's sure! keep everything fun, show him how much u care, tell him u care for him so much and he makes u feel things no-one else could, but don't mention the l word for a while! keep being an amazing supprtive girlfriend, be fun, funny, cute, sexy and don't push the pace! i know the hurt and disappiontment u feel but try n get past that and enjoy what u both have and the day will come when u will both use the l word regularly! keep positive n think about all the good times u share! good luck girl
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reader, daisyb212 +, writes (23 September 2007):
what u did was very brave! i have been considering telling my boyfriend as we have been together for 9 months, but havn't yet! all i can say is at least he was honest with u and u r lucky! he could have said it back to spare ur feelings so u should admire him for this, and when he does say it u will know its the truth and it will be much more meaningful to you! my advice is to just try and forget u said it and carry on as u r! its only been four months and he probably doesn't want to say it till he's sure! keep everything fun, show him how much u care, tell him u care for him so much and he makes u feel things no-one else could, but don't mention the l word for a while! keep being an amazing supprtive girlfriend, be fun, funny, cute, sexy and don't push the pace! i know the hurt and disappiontment u feel but try n get past that and enjoy what u both have and the day will come when u will both use the l word regularly! keep positive n think about all the good times u share! good luck girl
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (23 September 2007):
 yes but it's okay, some people take longer to work out there feelings and understand how they feel.
you've told him how you feel, and at least his not given you any false hopes but in time he will say it, and it'll be when you least expect it.
be patient and good luck
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