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36-40,
*avin
writes:Hi,I am was in a 7 years relationship and my gf broke of with me for 8 months, she has no feelings for me anymore. She said stuff like she wants to find herself back as in this pass relationship we have made many mistake. I still love her alot and it has never changed. How can I get her back, or to feel for me again, i proposed to her, we are engaged, I really want to see us back together and make things work again. Please help me coz i feel that she is the one for me.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Why on earth did she accept your proposal if she doesn't have any feelings for you? Whatever you do DO NOT GET MARRIED! You can't MAKE her feelings change, but she may come around in time. BUT do not tie the knot unless both of you are absolutely, passionately, and undeniably in love. Anything else spells disaster.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 I think that she doesn't want the engagement.
You say "she has no feelings for me anymore".
Probably this is true, but if you still believe that she is the one for you, just give her time she needs for thinking.
Stay around, but don't press her - she can change her mind.
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