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I really like this guy but I'm only his number 2. How do I deal with this?

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Question - (7 July 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2008)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *hicky writes:

my crush likes my best friend and me , he has a top 2 and i am his 2nd choice and my best friend is his 1st.

even though my best freind knows i like him, and for long now, she is not single but tells the guy that she also likes him.

id dont know how to feel or what to do

what i am asking is how must i deal with my situation?

i dont get a lot of guys and my friend does and i feel that it is wrong of her to take the guy away from me. i really like this guy and i dont know what to do.

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A female reader, chicky South Africa +, writes (15 July 2008):

chicky is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok they broke up and this time for good i hope ,he says he really likes me but wants to play the field

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A female reader, chicky South Africa +, writes (10 July 2008):

chicky is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok things keep changing but now he id dating his ex that he said he ws over

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

I think that is very wise of him; now he can get to know you and all the other girls better and then decide;

I suggest you respect his wishes and be happy to be good friends;

Best wishes; Good luck.

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A female reader, chicky South Africa +, writes (8 July 2008):

chicky is verified as being by the original poster of the question

he now says he likes us both the same but wants to be single for a while

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A female reader, sydney Albania +, writes (8 July 2008):

dont ever be anyone second best sweetheart, you deseve to be number one. here is a quote from a film i love ""in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend." it your life be the leading lady.

dont be second best hun ever xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008):

i had the boy i fancy fancy my best friend and he even went out with her for a while and she knew i liked him you can not do anything to persuade him to like you more it just makes you look like the jealous type your friend may have feelings for this boy too but if you know she doesn't then she is just doing it for attention don't be too quick to judge your friend you dont want to ruin your friendship

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008):

I suggest you forget about this guy; go get somebody to whom you can be NUMBER ONE; you desrve the best; no girl wants to be number 2; you are not desperate for this guy; he will be sorry that he lost you; but you need the best, be number one to the right guy;

Good luck.

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