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I really like this girl who is s lesbian and she thinks I am hot! Is she messing with me or is there a chance?

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Question - (16 April 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey,

Well I really like this girl who is a lesbian, and recently I told her. And she thought it was funny and tried to make me jealous by telling me about her sex life.

But then she started to tell me that I'm really hot and stuff.

I'm really confused. Is she just messing me about? Or shall I keep trying with her?

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A female reader, alexanderhan United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2011):

alexanderhan agony auntsome lesbians are like that, they mess around with you, make you jealous, they want you to chase them. just like a guy would do...

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A female reader, Sazza13 United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2007):

if u noticed the writer was female, and likes some one who is a woman.... most lesbians tend to be like that, i know a girl like that too, she does the exact same to me! i used to be like it too, its watching too much of the l word that does it, just ask her straight out, is she trying to make you jelous, and what does she want from you.

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A female reader, Cordelia +, writes (16 April 2007):

Cordelia agony auntIf your certainly 100% sure shes a lesbian. Shes messing you around. Forget about her and get on with your life. Theres plenty of straight girls out there for you!!!

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Cordi

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (16 April 2007):

kenny agony auntDo you know for sure that she is a lesbian. Some girls when they have had a drink fool around and tell guys that are lesbians for a laugh.

She said you are hot, she most probably meant it. The only way you can find out for sure is try it on with her, see what her reaction is.

Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007):

Maybe she's testing to see whether you are making it up that you like her or not. Start flirting back when she says about you being hot and stuff. See whether she actually wants to go further than just flirting with you.

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