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writes:im 15 and this girl is great weve known each other for about 2 yrs now... last year in school we went out 3 times. this was my first time having a gf and well none of them worked out but between all the breakups and stuff we were still close an it was liek we were going out because of how close we were. now its a year later weve still been close this whole time even closer and we were close to going out again it was going perfectly then her best friend told her not to an well we didnt go out now jus 2 days ago we got close again, an i just want to go out with her, i dunno what to do ive tried to convince her it wont b like b4 but i jus cant convince her, i really like this girl, i always have for 2 yrs now.what can i do to get us together?or to stay close? ~B~
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reader, heatherbug_xoxo +, writes (7 March 2007):
 Wow, it sounds like you REALLY like this girl. It is hard to find a guy like that. She is lucky! Maybe you could try to spend time with her as friends. Don't try to talk her into being more because if she is not feeling the way you are at the momet, it can push her away. I know that because i have been there and know others who have. If it turns out she only wants to be friends, then at least you can still be close in a different way. Give her time and space. Good luck to you!!! You sound like you have your heart set on this! That's always good :)
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (7 March 2007):
 My advice to you is spend as much time as possible with her and don't focus on trying to get her to go out just yet. As time goes by you will grow to know each other better and better and then it will be a natural thing for her to want to go out with her. Hope this helps. Doc.
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reader, Kody  +, writes (7 March 2007):
My Dear Friend
I would go ahead and ask her out tell her your true feelings and that every timr your around her your crazy about her tell her you love her.Read her this poem
I wrote your name in the sky
But the wind blew it away.
I wrote your name in the sand
But the waves washed it away.
I wrote your name in my heart
And forever it will stay.
Your friend Kody
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