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I live in America but I was born in Ireland I am 5,9 and 180pounds brown hair and hazel eyey I am 15 1/2 and my favorite rock band is Black 47 an Irish Rock Band

I am a small B-cup so what I want to know is do some guys prefer small breasts?

Q.   Dear cupid, sorry i know this is a boring question. now i dont compare myself to my friends or anyone else for that matter as i would rather be just me. It seems though, that when we're out almost all the guys go for them as almost all of them are ...

A.   12 April 2007: Dear Anonymous You probaly heard this before but It matters what is ont he inside not te outside.I am a teenager and as I notice alot the guys go for biggr breats but it doesnt matter.Its really what you think about yourself not what others ... (read in full...)

Bf wants to do some strange things. Not sure I approve. Any advice?

Q.   I have a very physical relationship with my boyfriend which I love. He is highly sexed and masturbates usually a couple of times a day as well. I don't mind this, as sometimes I do it for him. Recently, however, he's asked me if he can ejaculate all ...

A.   12 April 2007: There is a saying (I can't change the direction of the wind but I can set my sails to reach my destination) Only you can choose what you want to do.It's up to you to decide this.And I hope you choose the right desision for you and your boyfrien... (read in full...)

My dad "touches" me but when I tell him no, he goes into a tantrum!

Q.   Well I have had this problem since around age 12 I am 15 now. I do not like my dad touching me as he holds me like my bf on my hips want to hum him plevis to pelvis. He use to be worse by sometimes just opening the shower curtain on me and making ...

A.   12 April 2007: To you That is a weird thing anf I think it is immoral and against everythinh I stand for. You should confront him an tell him how you feel and if things get worse you should get ahold of police ... (read in full...)

I'm not particularly good looking, do you think I'm in with a chance?

Q.   looks matter alot dont they? i really like this girl and she's quite pretty but has never had a boyfriend because she's really shy and hard to approach. well there's me who has kinda broken the barrier and can talk to her sometimes at school a...

A.   13 March 2007: DudE Looks are good but a relationshipp depends not on how you look or dress its what kind of a person you are.Sounds like she likes you so shoot for the moon take a chance 10 to 1 she feels the same. Kody... (read in full...)

How can I find out if a girl likes me? Should I ask her friends?

Q.   how can i find out a girl likes me? could i ask her friends? or get my friends to ask her friends during a conversation to make it look less obvious? or any other ideas?...

A.   13 March 2007: Dude I have tryed this sometimes it works and other times is dosent but I found if you ask her and not throught friends she might think your imature trust me man ask her what is the worst she can say no take a chane. A very famous poet sai... (read in full...)

I feel like I've lost him and I'm in tears...

Q.   hey , I dont think My boyfriend likes me anymore.. At first we couldnt keep our hands of each other but he moved house and he lives next door to lots of girls around the same age as us. One of them the same age as me keeps syaing horrible things ...

A.   7 March 2007: To you Girl I fear that you mayindead be loseing him and that is a sorrow for you but if he wants to do that and go to other girls houses.You dont need him... (read in full...)

How can I stop looking at too much porn?

Q.   Help, i look at porn and i am just 13. i need to stop because it is slowly eating away at me. I know god hates it. Any advice plz....

A.   7 March 2007: Hey man I am 15 and I look at porn somtimes its ok just as long as you dont do something your parents would get mad at .We teens are very curious and its ok... (read in full...)

My gf drinks too much and treats me badly! Should I stay or leave?

Q.   My girlfriend drinks excessively and then treats me bad. In the year we have been dating she has thrown a plastic cup in my face, came to visit me and left for the whole day to party with her friends b/c she got pissed and then called me crying ...

A.   7 March 2007: If she treats you like that you dont need her you can always find someone esle sombody better... (read in full...)

I really like this girl so what can I do to get us together? Or to stay close?

Q.   im 15 and this girl is great weve known each other for about 2 yrs now... last year in school we went out 3 times. this was my first time having a gf and well none of them worked out but between all the breakups and stuff we were still close an it ...

A.   7 March 2007: My Dear Friend I would go ahead and ask her out tell her your true feelings and that every timr your around her your crazy about her tell her you love her.Read her this poem I wrote your name in the sky ... (read in full...)

I really like this girl so what is the next step I should take?

Q.   what is the next step i should take? i really like this girl in my year we are 16years old. she is very shy, recently i have been talkin alot on msn, and finally more in school. we were goin to go out with few friends but few things come up so we ...

A.   7 March 2007: My dear friend Never rely on an outside force If I were you I would ask her myself It seems to me that she like you and You like her very much dont belive her friends sometimes they just try to ruin a relationship... (read in full...)

I met this guy online, he said sex is necessary in a relationship and if we don't have sex first time then he has no choice but to give up! Does he just want me for sex?

Q.   I am a 20-yead-old girl in Asia and I met this 25-year-old guy from Europe on the internet in the end of 2005. After some talks on MSN and phone he asked me to be his gf and I agreed. I know it sounds stupid since we haven't met but my feeling is ...

A.   7 March 2007: There are more important things in a relationship than just sex. Though it is a part it is still not needed. love is the most important thing if he just wants sex I would get out of there... (read in full...)

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend but my friends have one, please give me advice on what to do?

Q.   Hi, im 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. I dont feel as if i'm ready to have one right now as i'm shy, but i feel pressurised to as my two best friends have one. I dont think i will ever get a boyfriend as i am too shy and not really pretty. Please ...

A.   7 March 2007: you got to have self estem I can do it if you think you cant you cant But if you belive you can you can Fo out buy yourself some new clothes a new hair dew and a makeover then go and get one or if you want to... (read in full...)

He slapped me and bruised my arm..So we broke up. How do I stop my crying over missing him?.

Q.   i was with this guy for about one year and he was a great guy i never had a guy like him before and i never felt the way about another guy and he would always buy me expensive things couse he said that he loved me and he wanted to stay with me for ...

A.   7 March 2007: Valerie I have a code of honor the number one rule is never ever ever hit a girl its down right lower then sin itself.If a guy hits you dont think twice leave cause it will just escalate there are plenty of other fish in the sea.If h... (read in full...)

Im painfully shy and have real low self esteem. I feel different to everyone else-how do I get past this?

Q.   Im wondering if other people feel the way I do. Im 23 years old and my life on the outside would seem perfect. Im a model with my own home, lots of friends and a great family. But inside I feel like Im destroyed. Im painfully shy and have real lo...

A.   7 March 2007: Its not what people think of you its what you think of you go out be brave you only live once... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and had sex with a lad in the school toilets, now I think I'm pregnant and don't know what to do?

Q.   Hey, Ive just done something wrong.. I just had sex with a lad in my class.. We were in science lesson at school and I noticed he was masturbating and I told him that I could see him and he told me to ask for the loo and meet him outside in 5 mins.. ...

A.   7 March 2007: I this be a hard one to answer 13 is very young I will admit I had never had sex but Its ok but why would you just go and do a boy and why was he doing that in science class where was the teacher I am a Irish american and I dont really have a good ... (read in full...)

What are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy?

Q.   hello agony aunts this question goes to all the girls/women who are agony aunt, men feel free to answer if u wnt what are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy or peng?? i need help as some girls on msn say im g...

A.   7 March 2007: To you I am a guy I know a little about what a girl wants Some want a nice polite and funny somelike differnt It depends on the girl... (read in full...)

Married 2 years and my wife has moved out, she said she feels more like brother and sister than husband and wife. What can I do to get her to come home?

Q.   hi - i've been married for just over 2 years. My wife recently moved out saying that we have become like brother and sister rather than man and wife. We have not had sex for over 3 months. The problems have been there for a lot longer, we were never ...

A.   7 March 2007: Dear Sir I am no women but this same thing happened to my family tearing it apart.My mother and Step dad were like that he showed no love not wanting to do any thing then they started to sleep in sepert rooms then it escaleted to fighting... (read in full...)

I've been dating this guy 4 months but have never met him (met online) we live so far away, should I break it off with him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Me and this guy have been dating for about four months going on five. I meet him over a dateline, he sounded like a sweet guy, so after some time he asked me to be his girlfriend. For some unknown reason without even thinking i said yes...

A.   7 March 2007: To Miss Oklahoma I to use to have someone I liked on the computer and I am in Ohio She was in Florida.We sent pictures and talked on the web cam but becarefull out there somepeople say there people there not.But if you love him you sho... (read in full...)

My bf never shows me respect and I always feel like I am alone. What should I do?

Q.   My BF and I have been together for 4.6 years. We have been through alot. My problem is he never shows me respect and I always feel like I am a lone. He says I am not social enough for him because I don't do bars. He has cheated on me because I don't ...

A.   7 March 2007: If he shows you no respect leave him there are plenty of other people out there... (read in full...)

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