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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this boy I like soooo much. However, he's younger than me. Is that a problem?And I don't even know if he likes me. He never noticed me the first couple of days. Then I noticed him looking at me and when I caught his eye, he smiled. He keeps telling me that I have a nice smile and nice pictures. He loves to talk he wants to talk to me, but we never have anything to talk about cos we are both so nervous. If he likes me, would he lose interest in me fast and switch to another girl? There's another girl who's older than him too, and I'm afraid he might like her....What do I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): i've been in your situation before honey and honestly, i went for the relationship with this younger man. i was infatuated with him and loved being so. however, as time would tell, as a younger man, he was very emotionally immature and always believed "the grass was greener on the other side." so we broke up after 2 years and 2 weeks later, i found out he hooked up with the girl that he supposedly didn't like during our relationship.
i lived and learned. and i totally regret having been with him. older men are definitely more understanding and mature.
if you already have these concerns and you're not even together, than you're going to have a very insecure relationship. Just be careful about who you give your heart to or you'll spend nights on end having nightmares about it.
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