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writes:My question is a year ago I ran into this guy I was seeing 20yrs ago. I was married at the time I was young and inexperienced didn,t know anything about life. My husband was a Navy man and was sent off to sea, make along story short I meet the other guy whilei was out and about and things happened and a relationship developed out of it. I wasn,t serious about him but apparently he was and I vanished out of his life for 20yrs. Well a year ago I ran into him and things clicked unfornately he had gotten married and had been for 12yrs separated for 3 and 4 kids. 3 by his wife and one by his ex coworker,and I knew all this while we were dating and I fell inlove with himand he ended our relationship finally to say there was someone else its more to the story but what shouldI do.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 March 2011):
 I'm assuming you're divorced? So he's separated but still legally married..and you dated him? Plus he has kids by an ex co-worker, which I'm assuming was his mistress while he cheated on his wife. Thus explaining their separation.
There's nothing you can do but move on. In this man's life, there will always be another woman. He can't seem to handle monogamy very well. If he dumped you and told you there was someone else, the only thing you can do is move on with your life. He's in your past now, not in your future. Sorry.
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