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I psyche myself up to give my boyfriend a lap dance, ... and then I chicken out!

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Question - (10 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ahhhh ive been wanting to give my boyfriend a lap dance and make him so horny he screws me senseless. lol. i get in the mood i get a cute baby dolls outfit. i think i look all sexy and stuff i pick out the music, but i get to scared and chicken out. i am not sure what to do really. how do you give a lap dance? and how do you make it great?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010):

I think your boyfriend is a lucky guy to have you do something like this for him.

While it's ok to practice I dont think you have to be professional. Just mimick what you see on tv or videos.

Even if you do mess up or gigle, it won't matter to him. He's gonna love it.

So don't feel pressured about messing it. It'll happen. Just have fun. He will love you for it!

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (10 February 2010):

Why don't you look in a classified ads paper and see if there are any classes in your area? Also enquire at local dance studios and gyms. And picking outfit and music is not enough. You have to practice a routine, you can choreograph it to know exactly when to do what. Remember to control facial expressions... You are supposed to look sexy and effortless, not as though you are trying too hard. You also don't have to do crazy contortions; just sexy subtle moves. Keep your routine short; perhaps 1 to 2 minutes. The real strippers practice for hours to do what they do, so practice for a week or two. Another thing, whatever you do, don't giggle annoyingly and collapse in a heap. Try to get to the end and the payoff will be amazing. Maybe give yourself a new name for when you get into stripper mode, eg. Candy or something. Then your boyfriend will be asking for her every once in a while for a bit of fun!!

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