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The special pendant is arriving late...so do I just go ahead and propose to her without it? Or should I wait?

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Question - (21 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hey there. Need some quick advice.

I'll be proposing to my partner very soon. But we've discused that we'll be getting our wedding bands together.

I want to make it official, and ask her. Since we're getting the rings together I want to get something special and i've choosen a beautiful pendant for us to wear matching each other. My problem is that its come to my attention that I'll only get them mid next week (tues-wed) and I was thinking of propsing on Monday, as I thought I'd get the pendant on (sun-mon). I want to propose as soon as possible. Should I wait for it to arrive and give it to her when i propose, or propose then when i have it i'll give it to her? I'm a bit confused and excited like I can't believe.

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A female reader, Aunt Audrey United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2006):

Aunt Audrey agony auntI think it would be nice to give her the pendant when you propose. You have obviously taken the trouble of choosing it with the proposal in mind, that makes it a special gift that marks the ocassion and well worth waiting for, even if it is a little later than you had planned. You've waited this long to ask her, I'm sure a couple more days won't matter.

Whatever you decide I hope everything goes well for you, and congratulations!

Good luck.

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A female reader, MissMo +, writes (21 April 2006):

of course you should wait for it!! it will make the day extra memorable! i know it's exciting, but hold off until you can get everything together. a proposal is a once (sometimes twice ..) in a lifetime opportunity. Make sure it's a day she'll fondly remember. Good luck!

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