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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I break up with my boyfriend of 4years for somebody else. well, i thought i wasn't happy with him anymore. Then i got married with this second guy and now i just cant seem to forget my first boyfriend. i always think of him nowadays. i am actually jealous that he's with someone already and they have plans of getting married. i know this is stupud but what shall i do???
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reader, Analdia +, writes (4 September 2008):
 You should call him nd talk to him and see how he is doing and if he really willing to get married.Try to get back with him if you want him because being with him that long kind of shows that he is yours.How long has it been since you guys broke away from each other?If not long then get him back.It should be easy because he shouldn't have forgotten about you that quick.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 September 2008):
I think to be honest here you have made your bed and have to lay in it for a while.
You didn't just leave this guy and then realise it was a mistake, you left him, met someone else, got engaged, planned a wedding and are now married.... that takes time.
Are you sure these feelings for your ex are real? Could it just be that your mistake was to marry too quickly and now you are wanting to go back in time?
You must have had reason to marry your husband. I suggest you cut contact with the ex, try and stop thinking about it and try to honour the vows you took.
Good Luck!! xx
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