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*aylee006
writes:Hello,i wrote a couple of months ago about my bf wanting to break up with me and he did..... its like hes changed into a completely different person. At first i was quite upset but now ive realised that i dont want to be with the new person hes changed into anyway, its stil hard not speaking to him and i still think about him alot.But now its gotten serious, ive jus found out im 2 months pregnant i didnt know until after we broke up. I dont believe in abortion and ive discussed it with many ov my friends and family. But i havnt told him yet, hes definiatley the father because hes the only person ive been with. I dont know what to say to him or how to tell him, im not doing it over the phone but i dont really want to see him either. I feel i need to talk to him about the details and whats goin to happen and if hes going to be involved at all.Any advice would be helpfullThanx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (8 April 2007):
 I think you are doing the right thing in telling this boy that he is going to be a father. You did not say how he had changed, but if you don't feel comfortable seeing him, meet in a public place and bring a friend or family member to remain close by. Ask them for five or ten minutes alone with your ex. You are absolutely right, it is the kind of news that you should tell someone in person, not by phone. He deserves to know as soon as possible. I wish you both Good Luck with the baby, Take Care.
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